It’s not going to get any easier but it sure can get more joyful! So how do we stay true to ourselves when the dramas around us make us feel we need to sacrifice our needs to be true to our friends and those we love. Orange Ixora helps to replace the feeling of sacrifice with an attitude for gratitude. Ixora serves as an amplifier towards the choice we made for the development of our Own relationship consciousness. It’s so hard to cut loose from those not yet ready to let go of an old drama and ego filled paradigm that keeps its grip at all cost. The new paradigm of love and acceptance is here. Ixora helps untangle the last cords that keep us bound to those that are acting out their process on you.
Un conditioning the ego on how you think another expects you to be is possibly the hardest thing to do. Sunflower shifts it to joy. Can you see that by looking at a sunflower?
The people around you who unburden themselves through you are being torn away from dysfunctional family and collective patterning they still hold on to. One of the reasons this process is so tedious and really not easy is because you want them to get it because there was a time they where so kind to you. What ever reasons you wish to stand by your suffering friend or loved one is- it’s a battle for you and them, a struggle and you want it to go away.
By connecting to your own needs from your own place of love you step up to your plate and the very things you desire can follow suit. The resistance dissolves and those around you can do their own part at their own time but no longer at the cost of yourself. Sacrificing your needs so those we love feel better is no longer an option.
It’s wild onion that peels this layer till your eyes are dropping pearls with love filled tears. You wish to help your suffering friend and can only be the observing bystander. Whereas in the past you where tempted to come with well intended advice. This time the wise onion speaks to you inwards. Reverse,reverse.
Connect to your inner source and not the outer source that feeds the game. The welcome shift is brought about by Boneset. She brings softness and gentle kindness even in the hardest moments. Allow yourself to be and flow with it as you let go of the old. Coming to be in a new way is when the real powers you possess can surface while breaking free of the lingering memory that kept you in fear.
Now Gardenias vibration can form the deep connections of grace filled love you wish for yourself! Make it all about you while you are unconditioning the ego identification that shaped your ideas that an outer needs your help. The reality becomes clear that the way you interact within all relationships are up for revision. I speak energetically and fully realize your unconsciousness does not realize what’s happening these days. Trust me here with these flower codes you can shift the vibration and the dynamics will shift. Gardenia offers opportunities to choose to leave behind dysfunctional patterns that stop your growth. Gardenia awakens a deep compassion within you that reshapes your inner original joy infinity (8) pattern to perfection. (tip the 8 horizontally and let that flash it’s magic around) From there your inner relationships shift and connects you to-all those who make your heart sing.